It’s the holiday season. For me it is Christmas time. For others it might be Hanukkah or Kwanzaa or something else or nothing else but without getting too complicated, it is the time of year people try to get festive about something. It could be the birth of a deity or it could be awesome sales at your favourite store. Whatever the reason, there it a festive feeling being tossed around and cheesy traditions being carried out every day.
For the most part I am all about cheesy traditions. Let’s do things and make some memories people! But not everything I encounter makes me happy. In fact there are some things about the holiday season that really bother me. (I can’t remember if I made one of these lists in the years past but if I did, I am sure something had to have changed from then to now. Right?)
- The movie Elf – so many people love this movie. It is on repeat on just about every station leading up to Christmas. You can’t turn on the TV without seeing Elf somewhere because so many people love it and find it wildly hilarious. I don’t find it funny at all. In fact, I find Elf really sad. It reminds me of how hard it is to move from one country to the next. Elf is a movie that reminds me of how awkward I felt as a new immigrant trying to understand other people’s customs, food, and beliefs. And having people laugh at his confusion and awkwardness really hurts my heart. I just can’t watch Elf because I don’t feel it is really a Christmas movie. It is more about making fun of differences rather than celebrating them and I just can’t support a movie like that.
- Egg Nog – I don’t get it. Not sure I ever will. Most likely you’ve heard this rant before but my thoughts on egg nog will probably never change. Is it supposed to be a throwback to Rocky only you added in some cream and rum to be festive? I can’t understand people, I just don’t.
- The self-induced inferiority complex – I see you pintrest for this one. Have you seen what the cookies on pintrest look like?? They make you think you can do replicate them no problem and then you try and you know what happens? You end up with green frosting on your elbows and cookies that resemble Yoda more than they resemble a cookie. You end up sitting in your kitchen what the hell happened because you were pretty sure you were in control of the whole situation the entire time. Well guess what, you weren’t. I mean, I give you points for trying and you should be laughing at the Yoda cookies but if you aren’t you shouldn’t feel bad about it. Being imperfect is what makes your cookies great. Your kids will eat them either way and licking icing off your elbows can be the new tradition. Whatever floats your boat.
- Awkward gift exchanges – do you give your boss a gift? And if you do, what do you give him and how much do you spend? What if you don’t give him a gift and he gives you a gift, what happens then? Do you run out a get a stand by gift? What about your assistant, the mailman or your next door neighbour? Who do you buy for and what do you do if they get you something and you have nothing to give back? The pressure to find gifts for these people is crazy. It is some stressful stuff and I just don’t want to deal with it sometimes. Knowing what to get and then trying to figure out how much to spend. It is just too much. *cue running around screaming here*
Other than all of those, it’s a great time to be festive.